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'v Richly Endowed about WOMEN (2or an Girl SATURDAY, JUNE 29, 1963 10-A Would Rather Be Flat Dear Ann Landers: I 'wish these girl3 would quit crying because they have figures like ironing boards. My problem is just the opposite and I would gladly change places with any of them. It's easy to add to what you don't have, but nothing can be done when you have too much. lllllll "-III ULIJUJJLJL I IMHI I II IBIII III 1111 11JII J. II I I 1 1 WHJllll! jtfJWL JIT.JlJ.r IJ.TTXTI3- JJl Li I Jl It I II I.

I.I 1 1 I I I. Ml J.IIJ III I. IIJIIIIIII" lmuimJl 'f 'xi' --y-: -yy- -x y- 'ck -i y'y ia; liiipPllilllP vtp-'y Ever since I was 12, I have been subjected to crude remarks because of generous over-endowment. All through school I've had a collection of private nicknames you wouldn't believe. I tried walking hunched over, carrying my books in front.

I wore loose blouses. Nothing helped. You can't imagine what it's like for a young girl never to be able to wear a sweater or a strapless dress or a low-cut gown. And what a job finding a decent fit! I need a size 10 dress with a 14 top. So please tell the Flat Flossies to stop moaning.

If they had to wear a double I cup they'd know what trouble is. ALL ME more (for Esther LaMarr). Award winners not pictured were Mrs. Rosa Parks, Mrs. Ruth McNiel and Bernardine Andrews.

Watts (who helped arrange the awards dinner), Agne Bristol, Violet Lewis (merit citation), Mary Mylar, (merit citation), Lillian Hatcher and Lemmie Blake- GAMMA PHI DELTA awards were, accepted by, from left: Celeste Cole, Edra Mae Milliard, Zola Robinson (for Gladys Johnson), Beulah Brewer, Lucille omen Honored Ten State Career pioved to Detroit with her husband, Raymond, she had been "humiliated, arrested, finger-printed, jailed and fined for refusing to give her seat on a bus to a white gentleman." Mrs. Celeste Cole's citation was for "her excellent performance in the world of music." Mrs. Cole, a member of the music faculty at Wayne State University, is director of the Celeste Colo Workshop (opera). She is a member of the National Opera Association, the National Association of Teachers of Singing. She also serves on the Mayor's Committee of the Detroit Grand Opera Association.

Mrs. Agnes Bristol, widow of Vollington A. Bristol, was honored "for her determined effort to give women a place in the business world." Mrs. Bristol is vice president of the Great Lakes Mu tual Insurance Co. and owner of the Bristol Funeral Home.

She is a director of the Federal Savings and Loan Association, a member of the Patrons of Arts, the NAACP and YWCA. She attended Wayne State University and the University of Michigan. 9 Mrs. Ruth McNiel, wife of Dr. Howard McNiel, won a.

citation "for her contribution to the beauty of life." An artist, she teaches as a hobby and exhibits her own paintings in her Bloomfield Hills home. 0 Bernadine Andrews, dress designer, won an award "for her talent for making wcTien beautiful." She designs in her home on Maxwell St. Miss Andrews studied at the New York Institute of Designing in New York. Her creations were modeled during Thursday's award program. Helen Tyler Wilson was general chairman of the program and Mrs.

Council B. Irwin, co-chairman. Mrs. Brewer received her master's degree in educational psychology at Wayne State University and is working toward her doctorate. She has won many educational awards.

Mrs. Edra Mae Hilliard, wife of Bishop W. O. Hilliard, is a general missionary officer of the A.M.E. Zion Church serving an West Africa.

She and her husband spend part of each year in West Africa where a school dormitory has been named in Mrs. Hilliard's honor. Mrs. Millard has edited oeveral books on Christian education of children. She was named 1963 woman of the year by the Central Methodist Episcopal Church.

0 Mrs. Lillian (John) Hatcher, an international representative of the citizenship-legislative department of thi UAW, has represented organized labor for 19 years. Ten women who symbolize 100 years of Negro progress since slavery received achievement awards at a banquet Thursday night in the Sheraton-Cadillac Hotel. They were honored by the Northern Regional of Gamma Phd Delta Sorority in a salute to the Business and Professional Women of Michigan Ohio. Programs throughout the week celebrating the Emancipation Proclamation were co-sponsored by 50 business, professional and private organizations.

Receiving the awards for outstanding contributions in the fields of education, religion, government, human relations, music, business, labor, journalism, art and designing were: 0 Mrs. Beulah Brewer, widow of Dr. James Brewer and the first Negro woman to serve as school principal in Detroit Pattengill a position shs holds currently. For 12 years she has been on the staff of the Fair Practices Department at the UAW, her duty being to implement the union's program against discrimination and bigotry. Mrs.

Hatcher was a delegate to the Constitutional Convention. She is vice chairman of the 13th Congressional District Democratic Organization and chairman of the Women's, Committee on the Detroit Council for Human Rights. 0 Mrs. Gladys (James) Johnson is winner of the journalism award. She has been on the Michigan Chronicle for 20 years and also edits a publication for the Michigan Employment Security Commission.

She formerly worked on the Washington staff of Congressman Charles C. Diggs, Jr. 0 Mrs. Esther Randall LaMarr. executive secretary of the Detroit Commission on Children and Youth, is the Neck I ASK THE DENTIST New Methods Cure Abscesses DR.

ALFRED E. SEYLER Witti ffi Michigan Stat Dental Astn. I have lost several teeth because they were abscessed. Each time the dentist has told me there is no chance of clearing up an abscessed tooth. Can't some of the wonder drugs be administered to clear up an abscess, or is this incurable.

Is any research being done in this area? A. J. C. A Advances and research have changed the thinking of most dentists that all abscessed teeth must be extracted. I have seen patients with several teeth in their mouth which have been treated by an endodontist because of ab Dear You: An embarrassment of riches, you might call it Here's your letter and let's ftope it cheers up the Flat Flossies although they will probably find little comfort in knowing that someone else has too much of what they'd like more of.

'Will Girls Lead My Boys Astray? Dear Ann Landers: I am the mother of four teenagers. These are perilous times for growing up, but I am not concerned even remotely about my daughters, Ann. It's the boys that worry me. Tom is 16 and Jim 18. They are obedient and respectful, excellent students, well-behaved and outstanding in athletics.

So what is the problem? It's the way the girls run after them that worries me sick. How much temptation ran a young fellow stand Now that school is out the phone rings night and day. Both boys have summer jobs, but when they come home at 5:30 there is a list of girls who have telephoned. Every night two or three girls drive up in their convertibles. Sunday a girl came over in her car.

She was wearing a bikini. I wouldn't think of allowing my daughters to be so shameless. What can a mother do ATLANTA, GA. Dear Atlanta: The world has always had shameless females and I see no evidence that this sort of woman is disappearing. Your work is done.

Mother or it isn't. If your boys were taught early to respect themselves and others you need not worry. If you failed to teach them, worrying now won't, help. Clothes Trader Tells How ICs Done Right Dear Ann Landers: Several letters have appeared in your column from mothers who received used clothing for their children. Some were delighted others insulted.

I hope you will find space to print just one more. I grew up during the de-. pression. Every evening gown I ever owned went to at least four proms. My maternity dresses went the rounds, too.

Nothing was wasted. When we moved to another city I offered some clothing to a woman who hasn't spoken to me since. So when my husband decided to discard an expensive sport jacket I gingerly offered it to a mother who could well afford to buy her son a new one. She gave me in return some play clothes for my younger children. It kills me to send kids out in brand new clothes to play in the mud.

I was delighted to have the hand-me-downs. 1 This woman and I are now good friends. The secret is to know which people will be offended and which ones will be pleased. And the only way to find out is to ask. DID IT Dear Did It: Thanks for a nice, homey letter.

There are more people like you than the other kind. And I'm glad! Confidential to ANTI ASH FLICKER: The moment she lights up hand her a nice big ash tray. She'll get the point. If alcohol is robbing you or someone you love of health and dignity, write Ann Landers, P. O.

Box 828, Detroit 31, for her booklet, "Help For The Alcoholic," enclosing with your request 20c in coin and a long, self-addressed, stamped envelope. Mrs. Frederick Buesser III F. G. Buessers Honeymoon In Montreal Frederick Gustavus Bues-iser Hr and Julia Forsyth Guest exchanged wedding vows Friday evening in a double ring ceremony in the Church of the Holy City.

A reception at Oakland Hills Country Club followed the ceremony. The bride, who wore a gown of pale ivory peau de soie, is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James A. Guest, of fBdrmingham.

Mr. and Mrs. Frederick G. Buesser, of Birmingham, are the bridegroom's parents. After a wedding trip to Montreal the newlyweds will nuke their home In Ann I Arbor.

Honor attendants for the "couple were Mrs. David C. Rider and Robert Lovell, both of Birmingham. The bridesmaids were Anne Buesser, the bridegroom's Sister, and Mar go Mensing. They were dressed, like Mrs.

Rider, in turquoise sheath dresses with overskirts. Edward Busch and James Griffin, of Birmingham, ushered. WATLING McBRIDE: Jolynn McBride and Robert Lett Wat ling were married I Friday evening at Mt. Olivet Methodist Church. Dr.

and Mrs. Stanley Patrick Mc- Bride, of Dearborn, and Mr. and Mrs. Charles Watling, of Ypsilanti, are their parents. Swiss embroidery in a leaf and floral motif defined the high rise waist of the bride's blossom white peau de soie gown.

After the reception at the Dearborn Inn, the newly- weds left for Canada and the East Coast. They will live in Ann Arbor. FINKBEINER GRATH-WOHL: Irrne Elizabeth Amelia Grathwohl wore a princess style gown of silk organza for her marriage Friday evening to Howard Frederick Flnkbeiner at Trinity United Church of Christ. Parents of the couple are Rev. and Mrs.

Carl Hadley Grathwohl, of Esper and Mrs. George Finkbeiner, of. Ann Arbor, and the late Mr. Finkbeiner. After traveling through Michigan and Ohio, they will live in Plymouth.

JOT yip? i 5 'A 'A first woman appointed to serve in a government post on the Mayor's executive staff. A sociology major at the University of Michigan, she holds a master's degree and is a graduate of the University of Detroit School of Law. She Is a former probation officer and field work supervisor for Wayne County Juvenile Court. She is a member of the Wayne County Mental Hea-lth Society and is on the board of management for the YWCA. Mrs.

Rosa Parks, formerly of Montgomery; received an award "for her determined stand on civil rights for her great contribution toward achieving first class citizenry for the Negro throug.i court litigation against the Montgomery City Lines Bus Co. and winning an unamimous decision in the United States Supreme Court." Before Mrs. Parks had We Need Justice Says KNOXVILLE. Tenn. mPB Supreme Court Justice Tom C.

Clark deplores the absence of the "old woodshed" once used for chastising the erring child. Clark, in a speech to the National Council of Juvenile Court Judges, encouraged the judges to work with the family, the church and the school toward "a better awareness of the defiant behavior of children and to institute private procedures for its early correction." "When defiant activity reaches the stage of law violation, the juvenile judge must step In with corrective procedures sufficiently stern to completely curb such he said. Clark said he places the juvenile court judge first in importance in the nation's judicial system because some 12 per cent of all youths will come in contact with juvenile court procedures at some time between the ages of 10 and 17. Cotillions Give Reins to New Officers New presidents of Cotillion Club, and its auxiliary are Herman J. Glass and Mrs.

Douglas Fletcher. Other club officers are James N. Garrett, vice president; Cassius Pendelton and Charles A. Hill secretaries, and William Duncan, treasurer. Auxiliary wives taking office recently were Mrs.

Armentha Johnson, vice president; Mrs. Trixie Smith, treasurer; Mrs. Anne Brent, Mrs. Satella Glenn and Mrs. Olivia Smith, secretaries.

Fred C. Bolsers To Live on Campus Following their Mackinac Island honeymoon, Mr. and Mrs. Fred C. Bolser will make their home on the campus of Eastern Michigan University.

They were married June 15 at St. Paul's Church, Dearborn. The bride is the former Kay D. Gardner, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Gerald Gardner, of Dearborn Heights. Her husband is the son of Mrs. Fred Bolser, also of Dearborn Heights, and the late Mr. Bolser. MY ACHING BACK luiimwjpi Unfreeze Your scesses, lhe health or these patients according to their physicians is fine, and the teeth are serving their owners well, many times as abut-jnents for a bridge, or with a porcelain jacket for reasons of appearance as well as function.

It is true there are many Dr. Sejier up until your knees are your chest. as deeply as possible, raising as high possible. Ultimately, should hold the position these breathings, then walk down into flat position again. is then repeated with turned to each side.

have neck arthritis, this exercise painful. Yet that's what prescribed for me under that use it whenever my neck painfuL Other neck exercises. Few of us give our necks any exercise at all, and certainly not enough for correct posture. So we suffer from neck soreness and stiffness. An orthopedic specialist taught me this exercise "to prevent my neck from freezing," as he put it.

This exercise cannot be done on a mat. Lie flat on your face, arms at the sides, nose and chin pressed to the floor. Newspaper can cover the floor for this-, so that you aren't hreathing in floor dust. Keeping chin, nose, and hands on the floor, bend the knees and walk Maybe You Should BY MAXWELL RIDDLE ACTUALLY many fat people don't eat euch large quantities of food, nor even such rich foods, but for their physically inactive lives it is too much. In a highly competitive society of food surpluses, we are urged to buy more and more food.

And with money to buy, it is difficult to resist. In our culture, food and drink are the basis of most hospitality, the way we show our affection and liking for people. Yes, and modern times are anxious times for many with little opportunity physically to work out their anxieties. Food and drink become an easy way to relieve tensions. What can be done about the obesity problem? To date, results of treatment have been disappointing.

yourself against Breathe the chest you for 20 of yourself The exercise the head vIf you is very the doctor condition. I is stiff and NEXT: factors which the dentist must consider in deciding whether or not an abscessed tooth can be treated successfully. Frequetly, however, the patient who comes to the dental office in severe pain will insist the tooth be extracted. There is a point to be made here, and it i3 that the way to treat most absecesses is by prevention, by going to the dentist regularly. If you have lost several teeth because of abscesses at their root ends, perhaps the only miracle drug you need is an ounce of prevention.

If you wait until you have a toothache before you go to a dentist, you have waited too long! MOST ABSCESSED teeth can be saved. If the abscess is one which occurs at the root end of the tooth, it was caused by death of the nerve or pulp within the tooth. This can be the result of a blow on the tooth, continuing injury to the tooth in biting or chewing, or decay. The treatment for the abscess condition is known as root-canal, or endodontic, therapy, and it is successful in more than 90 per cent of such cases. In the case of a periodontal abscess, which is one that occurs between the root of the tooth and the socket, the success of treatment is not always as high as with rootend abscesses, depending upon how much damage has been done to the bone around the tooth.

Successful treatment of this type of abscess may often involve the services of a periodontist, a dentist who specializes in treatment of the gums and bone surounding the teeth. Stay Fat There are individuals who probably should never try to reduce by dieting. They seldom are able to stick to a diet. For these people overeating may be the best way they find to adjust to their life circumstances. A physician who knows his patients well can pick them out.

But, for persons' who are quite stable emotionally, if they themselves really wish to reduce, and if their life situation is reasonably good at the time, weight loss is quite possible and encouraging. So does a good, well-balanced diet not too drastically restricted in calories, which keeps you from being too hungry during a slow but steady weight loss. BY DR. CHARLOTTE M. YOUNG KANSAS CITY OP Not everyone who is fat is necessarily an enormous eater.

Nor should all who are obese try to reduce. True it is, obesity is the No. 1 nutrition problem in this land of plenty. It is also a fact that the only reason anyone is too fat is that the energy he takes in as food and drink is greater than he puts out as activity and to keep his body alive. The extra is stored as body fat.

But in modern life both factors are at fault Too little energy ia spent in activity; Too many calories are taken as food and drink for the amount of activity. The conveniences of modern living mean we use less and less energy..